Holiday Depression and Strees

Medical Author: Mellisa Conrad Stoppler, MD

Medical Editor: William C. Shiel Jr., MD, FACP, FACR
The holiday season for most people is a fun time of the year-filled with parties, celebrations, and social gatherings with family and friends. But for many people, it is a time filled with sadness, self-reflection, loneliness, and anxiety.

What causes the holiday blues?
Sadness is a truly personal feeling. What makes one person feel sad may not affect another person. Typical sources of holiday sadness include:

  • Stress
  • Fatigue
  • Unrealistics Expectations
  • Over Commercialization
  • Financial Stress and
  • The inability to be with one's famliy and friends
Balancing the demands of shopping, parties, family obligations, and house guest may contribute to feelings of being overwhelmed and increased tension. People who do not view themselves as depressed may develop stress responses, such as:
  • Headaches
  • Excessive Drinking
  • Overeating, and
  • Insomnia
Others may experience post-holiday sadness after New Year's/January 1st. This can result from built-up expectations and disappointments from the previous year, couples with stress and fatigue.
Tips for coping with holiday and depression:
  • Make realistic expectations for the holiday season
  • Set realistic goals for yourself
  • If you are lonely, try volunteering some of your time to help others
  • Find holiday activities that are free, such as looking at holiday decorations, going window shopping without buying, and watching the winter weather, whether it's a snowflake or a raindrop
  • Limit your consumption of alcohol, since excessive drinking will only increase your feelings of depression
  • Try something new. Celebrate the holidays in a new way
  • Spend time with supportive and caring people
  • Reach out and make new friends
  • Make time to contact a long lost friend or relative and spread some holiday cheer
  • Make time for yourself!
  • Let others share the responsibilities of holiday tasks
  • Keep track of your holiday spending. Overspending can lead to depression when the bills arrive after the holidays are over. Extra bills with little budget to pay them can lead to further stress and depression.

Is the environment and reduced daylight a factor in wintertime sadness?
Animals react to the changing season with changes in mood and behavior. People change behaviors, as well, when there is less sunlight. Most people find they eat and sleep slightly more in wintertime and dislike the dark mornings and short days. For some, however, symptoms are severe enough to disrupt their lives and cause considerable distress. These people are suffering from seasonal affective disorder (SAD).
Research studies have found that phototherapy is effective in treating people that suffer from SAD. Phototherapy is a treatment involving a few hours of exposure to intense light. The extra exposure to light while awake seems to correct symptoms of seasonal affective disorder.

 



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